Cold emailing is one of the most undervalued ways to connect with people.  Many of us are too worried that we won’t get a response and won’t even try but I’m here to tell you… IT’S WORTH IT!  This isn’t going to work 100% of the time but is such a great opportunity to network with people you’re interested in connecting with just with a simple cold email.  

These emails aren’t the space to ask for jobs or big favors. Their intention is to learn and grow as a professional from people who have done or are doing something you admire.  Before you start randomly emailing people follow these 7 steps in order.  (HINT: there’s a template in there for you).  Follow each step to ensure you aren’t missing anything and unintentionally sending out generic, non-thought provoking emails!


Make a “Wish” List

As you think about your professional goals, identify people who you admire, thought leaders, and people with skill sets that you are interested in learning more about.   I suggest keeping a running excel sheet with these individuals.  No person is too “big” to put on the list but keeping the expectation that you might not hear back from people.

Identify Your Goal

Now that you have this great wish list, dig deep and figure out why you want to reach out to them.  Are they a thought leader in the field? Work for a company that you admire? Took a different career path?   Think about each person on the list separately and write down your specific reason as to why you want to contact them.

Do your research

Google will be your best friend for this one!  Take some serious time to find out more information about them both personally and professionally.  The more you know, the better your email will come across. Look into publications, quotes, videos, and anything else that would be relevant to this person’s career.

Track down their email

Depending on who you are trying to reach out to their email might be like finding a unicorn so you are going to have to do some digging.  Think six degrees of  Kevin Bacon kind of research.  Do you know anyone who works for the same company? Related? Personal assistant? Think about who might be able to lead you in the direction of getting their contact information.  


Craft Your Message

Identify who you are

This doesn’t have to be long winded but give the recipient a brief overview of who you are and where you are from.  Are you a recent graduate? New to an area?  Working abroad? Give some facts that might interest them.

Why you admire them and what you know about their career and experience 

This is where all that research comes in to play.  How did they get to be where they are and why do you admire that?  Were you unable to find their career path but have admiration for what they are doing now and are interested in hearing more about that?  Be conversational and specific to let them know you spent time to to research and put thought into your contact.

Identify questions

You’ve established who you are and why you admire them and now is the time to ask them a few questions.  This will help you set up for your request for a call or to meet in person.  They should not only know that you admire them but what types of information you’re interested in learning from them.  This is not the place to ask for a job or make any demands and is the opportunity to ask questions to grow as a professional.

Give a clear call to action

At the end of the email you want to close with a clear call to action with:

  • What you want them to do
  • How they can contact you

Here’s a template that you can use that brings it all together:


My name is ____, and I am (profession) living in (location).   I am inspired by your work in (x field) and have enjoyed following your professional journey.  Your (article/story/video) in (publication) has motivated me to (your motivation).  I am sure your schedule is hectic but would welcome the opportunity for a 15 minute call.   I would be interested in learning more about your professional experience and any advice you may have for a new professional. 

Please suggest dates and times that would work for you and I will make myself available.  Thank you again and I look forward to our conversation.


(Your Name)

Identify a “catchy” subject line

The subject line is the first thing people use to decide if they want to even open your email.  Now is the time to be professional, personable and a little creative.  I usually create the subject line after the email so it matches the tone and the content.  If you write the subject line prior to the actual email it might come across generic and impersonal.



We’re all human with busy schedules and sometimes emails just get lost. We have all been known to read an email and then forget to respond.  If someone doesn’t get back to you right away, it doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in speaking with you but it may take a few follow ups to get through.  I like to call it “politely persisting.”

Follow up a week after your initial email and then set up a reminder to follow up every two weeks.  This might come across as a little bit annoying but it will also show you are committed and interested in the conversation.  Your follow up emails can have a different spin to them, for example:

  • Share research you found that might be of interest to them
  • Give a compliment (with sincerity) about a recent article they were quoted or featured in
  • Wish them a happy birthday or happy holidays (when appropriate)

Emails should be genuine because if they aren’t that will shine right through!

Don’t lose sight of your goals

Not everyone will get back to you and that’s OK!  But try to not lose sight of why you reached out to them in the first place and search for additional contacts.  You can always circle back in the future and this is not a sign that you won’t be successful or a reflection of you personally.

What tricks do you have to get responses on cold emails?

Alissa Carpenter
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